《西雅图夜未眠》CoCoM

43、申请反家庭暴力保护令-证据

　　Exhibit 12: 01/25/2023: CK’s Lies: Financial Exploitation Attempt with Flywire, Visa Card and Argentine pesos
　　On Januray 25, 2023, CK said “his special credit card “ has “ a promotion with payment through Flywire”, and suggested to use my school account for him to get cash refund for the excess tuition fees, and offered to use his credit card to pay my tuition fee to get me 4% cashback.
　　However, later I learned that was a loophole with Flywire where using a Visa card and paying with Argentine pesos could get a 40% discount.

　　This is true and correct copy of records showing that CK used Flywire and Agentine pesos and paid 1 USD for my tuition fee for test purpose. The money was returned by Flywire later.

　　Exhibit 13: 02/21/2023: Cancel One Course due to Emotional Distress Caused by CK
　　Due to serious symptoms of emotional distress, including terrible headache and depression, I had to cancel one of my courses at the school I am attending.
　　This is a true and correct copy of the email that I had to quit one course on February 21, 2023, due to the emotional distress caused by CK.

　　Exhibit 14: 03/06/2023: Diagnose from Doctor, Depression
　　On 03/06/2023, I had my first appointment with my family doctor in US, and was diagnosed as depression with tension headache. Medication was offered by the doctor.
　　On 03/09/2023, CK called me on Skype. When I told him my depression, he said “It’s normal to be depressed in Seattle, he was also diagnosed depressed every time when he sees his doctor, doctor always says so”.
　　This is a true and correct copy of the diagnosis that I received from the doctor that I saw in March 2023.

　　Exhibit 15: 04/23/2023: “Sleepless in Seattle” - My Anonymous Love Story on Little Red Book
　　On March 21, 2023, when Kang Dai discussed with me about how to make our relationship better, CK even denied his Chinese name to be CK (in Chinese “xx”), which caused my feeling of greater doubt and insecurity about this relationship.
　　The last time I was trying to confirm if CK would be committed to relationship with me was on April 1, 2023. CK responded yes but asked me to wait for him for three months.
　　But I could not wait anymore. I suffered too much pain from CK. I deleted Kang Dai’s WeChat and Skype accounts, and our previous email correspondences.
　　On April 23, 2023, I wrote down my experience with CK in Chinese and published the story on Little Red Book with potential intention to seek emotional support from those who have similar experience.. To protect the parties’ privacy, I did not use the real name of either party in my writing and did not release any party’s personal information.
　　Part of my writing was from my dairy written in January and October 2022, which I shared with CK previously. CK told me he liked those writings when he received them.
　　I still loved him while writing the story.

　　Below are true and correct copies of my post on Little Red Book, and with English translation by Google.

　　Exhibit 16: Unknown Internet Users Posted My Story, Hundreds of Comments, CK’s Blame
　　I later realized that, during the two days of April 23, 2023 and April 24, 2023, my story was posted by unknown internet users on Little Red Book, and the websites 1point3acres.com and huaren.com. Both are website for Chinese readers in the U.S. These posts received hundreds of comments. CK blamed all of these on me.

　　These are true and correct copies of unknown users who posted my story online. Two different posts by two users on Little Red Book, one post on 1point3acres.com, one post on huaren.com.
　　There are a few more posts on Little Red Book and 1point3acres.com by unknown internet users in following days.

　　Exhibit 17: Unknown Internet Users Revealed that CK Married Many Years Ago and has Child, Sent Me His Info, Photos, Public Property Deed
　　It appears that, in the early morning of April 24, 2023, CK’s real name was discovered or identified by unknown internet users, without my knowledge. After that, I started to receive messages from unknown internet users, who provided detailed personal information of CK, including his employment information.
　　Photos of CK’s child, which were previously published by CK on his Instagram account and therefore accessible to the public, were also sent to me by unknown internet users.
　　I was deeply shocked, and then fell in great and deep pain, when I learned that CK was at least married in 2017, and already had a child.

　　These screenshots show that unknown internet users left comments to me revealing that CK has married and has a kid.
　　The content is in Chinese, translation:
　　“This man’s wife just gave birth to baby this year. Why do you still protect him?”
　　“Be awake! He has wife, wife just gave birth to baby!”
　　“Look at 1point3acres where people say he has married. Don’t waste time and love on person who doesn’t deserve.”

　　These screenshots show that unknown internet user informed me that individuals have seen CK’s baby’s photos on Instagram. I said I don’t know his ins, and asked if that is his baby, as I really could not believe.
　　From unknown internet user on Little Red Book:
　　“Someone on Little Red Book left comment saying already see his baby’s photos on his Instagram.” “Do you have his ins?”
　　“Can you show me screenshot (of that comment)? I don’t know his ins.” (from me)
　　“Instagram account - shibachaichaiinu” (from screenshot)
　　“If that really his kid,then he is cheating in his wife’s pregnancy.”
　　“Oh my God”
　　“How did internet user search?” (from me)
　　“I don’t know.”
　　“I don’t know is that his kid?” (from me)
　　“Should be his kid, if that’s his ins.”

　　These screenshots show that unknown internet user informed me that CK has married many years ago had has kid. I was shocked by hearing that.
　　From unknown internet user on Little Red Book:
　　“You know his name, don’t know he’s married and has kid?” “You don’t see his Instagram?” “Who do you think the kid he posted belong to? Friend’s?” “shibachaichainu” “his dog’s Ins” “Otherwise? He has kid, but not married, so fashion?” “location always in Issaquah, never been away.” “Where is kid from?” “Wake up, he has kid, that’s his wife.”
　　From me:
　　“Can’t see any personal info from his WeChat Moment.” “I don’t know his ins before.” “Is he really married?” “I’ll be crazy.”

　　These screenshots show that unknown internet user informed me that CK has married at least in 2017 and sent me a deed of his property.
　　From unknown internet user on Little Red Book:
　　“Location is in Issaquah, need it to be more obvious?”
　　“Unfortunately to tell you, he married at least in 2017.” “Check it by yourself.”
　　“Why don’t you check this house address on redfin to see if this is his house? Why don’t you compare if chaichai (his pet) lives in that house?” “When can you believe?”
　　“Property info in USA is public.”
　　From me:
　　“How to check, can’t see.” “I don’t know his house’s address.”

　　A copy of deed from 2017 showing that a real property located in King County was titled to CK and CK’s spouse, Feng Respondentng, as community property, was also sent to me by at least four unknown internet users. The deed shows “Feng Jiang and CK, a married couple”.
　　This screenshot is a copy of the deed showing the title of the community property owned by CK and his wife Feng Jiang.
　　In this deed, it shows “Feng Jiang and CK, a married couple” “ in 09/25/2017”.

　　These screenshots show that unknown internet user informed me that CK purchased that property with Feng Jiang in 2017 as married couple, and send me two photos of his kid which he posted on Instagram.
　　From unknown internet user on Little Red Book:
　　“They purchased that house in 2017 as married couple, and still live there. So, his wife knows this from beginning to end? Or she super loves, after birth to baby will attack you? You consider, white paper and black words on property deed. Married couple. Maybe they will not divorce from beginning to end, you are the only one being hurt.”

　　These screenshots show that unknown internet user sent me photos of CK’s kid which he posted by himself on Instagram.
　　First picture was posted by him on 02/16/2023 with location Issaquah. On 02/16/2023, he approached me, asking me if my period finished. Because on 02/10/2023, he had sex with me and chocked my neck when I was in period and in pain, which caused me unbearable pain afterwards. On 02/20/2023, he said he will see me next week. He also told me he went to California on 02/16/2023 with his mother to see his sister.
　　Second picture was posted by him on 03/13/2023 with location Issaquah, while he told me he was in California during that time.

　　These screenshots show that unknown internet user informed me that CK has married at least in 2017 and sent me a deed of his property.
　　From unknown internet user on Little Red Book:
　　“Move on, that man married long time ago.” “I know them (Kang Dai and his wife), they married before COVID-19, in 2017. You move on.” “His name is dk, I didn’t recognize wrong?” “Chaichai I think I wouldn’t recognize wrong.” “married long time ago, 2017.” “ex colleague.” “Anyway I know that he married, I’ve seen his wife, before COVID-19. don’t remember specific. You move on. Anyway he married long time ago. I see he deleted his Little Red Book posts, should be found out.”
　　From me:
　　“Do you know them? Do you know when he got married?” “When did you see?”

　　These screenshots show that unknown internet user informed me that CK has married in 2017, his wife has baby this year, and sent me a deed of his property.
　　From unknown internet user on Little Red Book:
　　“I care about you after reading your story. How could you’ve been hurt so much by scumbag. I also work in Amazon, and know this man in person. Actually he married in 2017. His wife has baby this year. He is just a very ordinary and unremarkable programmer. You are student, may admire him. After your graduation, when you go to big firm, you will see many people who are excellent than him. His three values are distorted and morally corrupt, really doesn’t worth you to waste time on him. Really hope you can care about your emotional situation, cheer up. Not sure what i can help you, if you need, tell me any time.”
　　“This is his marriage certificate found b other people. You can find it in King County. I send you link later.”

　　These screenshots show that unknown internet user informed me that CK has married in 2017, and sent me a deed of his property.
　　From unknown internet user on Little Red Book:
　　“This one is not marriage certificate, but this certificate says that in 2017 they were married, which could not be wrong.” “He doesn’t admit in front of the certificate, is still lying to you?”
　　“he will give you a fake marriage certificate tomorrow. You can search on official website and found that they were married couple in 2017. Why don’t you believe?”
　　“If he admitted he married in 2017, then he has been cheating his marriage for 6 years.”
　　From me:
　　“This is not marriage certificate?” “I asked him to show me his marriage certificate, he said will look for it tomorrow.” “Why doesn’t he admit?”

　　This screenshot is a copy of the deed showing the title of the community property owned by CK and his wife Feng Jiang. This deed was shared by unknown users around and sent to me.
　　In this deed, it shows “Feng Jiang and CK, a married couple” “ in 2017”.

　　I was deeply shocked, and then fell in great and deep pain, when I learned that CK was at least married in 2017, and already had a child.

　　These screenshots show that unknown internet users have been discussing CK’s baby’s photos from his Instagram, and those people know him.
　　Conversations between unknown internet users on Little Red Book and WeChat:
　　“I found his baby’s birth photo posted by him.”
　　“I probably know who he is, I will ask my friend to check his “Amazon” badge photo tomorrow.” “Did you see on Little Red Book?” “Ins” “What’s his ins?” “his dog’s ins” “shibachaichaiinu”
　　“seems to be someone you know.” “I have been ping whole morning, Indeed is.” “Hasn’t he married in 2017 and purchased house? Has baby recently?”

　　These screenshots show that unknown internet user informed me that CK has married in 2017 and has baby in February 2023,
　　From unknown internet user on Little Red Book:
　　“If he is the Instagram influencer I saw, then he has baby this February. One of my friends sent me his marriage certificate. He married in 2017. If that certificate is real. I think you can sue him. Use law to protect yourself. Emm. You don’t have evidence.”

　　These screenshots show conversations between people who know CK and his wife.
　　“I am really too familiar with them” “you are at front line, mouth so tight. Really friend.” “sign, truly moral corruption. I just don’t want to make mess.” “Hmm, see how they deal with it.” “I didn’t read all. It's really disgusting to put it all together. She came to Seattle, his wife is here, he still don’t let her go.”
　　“his current colleague’s friends all posted on 1point3acres.com. I guess they all know. Chinese community is small.”

　　What I also learned from these internet users was that CK has been very active on over 20 social media platforms, with about 100,000 followers and 30 Million plays in total, that CK attempted to establish an image of “elite single young man” on his social media, especially in WeChat groups consisting of his followers of his podcast “Talk About America after Meal” (in Chinese 饭后说美国). His social media name used to be “Boss Dai in USA” on all social media platforms. He disclosed his WeChat contact for people to connect and follow him and shared with the public many photos of himself, his dog, and his child.
　　I was not an active social media user and was not aware of CK’s overall social media accounts and the published contents before.

　　Below screenshots show comments from his followers:
　　“He portrayed himself as elite, single man, values integrity, knowledgeable, talented...”
　　“He set a few 500 members group on WeChat, people all think he is single. Feeling all deceived by him. His followerss don’t know he is married and has kid. Some want to introduce girlfriend to him, he never say he is married and has kid. Speechless. not sure why he hides such info.”
　　“He said he graduated from college in 2015 and was 21 years old that year(now he is 29).”
　　“He portrayed his age as 1990s. make people believe he was born in 1994. He is too good at establishing image in his podcast.”

　　Exhibit 18: 04/24/2023: Kang Dai’s Blames, Death Threats, Lies, Confession, Solution via WeChat Calls & Messages
　　On April 24, 2023, at about 2:43 a.m., CK started to contact me on WeChat. On that single day, within about 13 hours, CK called me 13 times via WeChat, and talked to me for about 219 minutes. CK also sent me about 50 messages on WeChat.
　　In these WeChat calls, CK yelled at me and threatened me with his death, and our ruin together; he also threatened me that his wife might come after me and do things he would not be able to know; and he also threatened that he would release five email correspondences between us that contained intimate languages.
　　I was shocked by CK’s threat and fell in great fear about what he and his spouse would do to me.
　　In these WeChat calls, CK also told me that he would not blame me for the published story; but he would report to police and sue those individual internet users who searched and exposed his personal information, who criticized him online. CK also told me that my story was “stolen” by someone else on Little Red Book, and that story was all over the internet because “it was randomly circulated and posted by internet users.”
　　In these WeChat calls, CK denied that his was living at the address shown on the deed and insisted that he was not married before 2022. He again denied his name is “CK”(代抗）, and told me a different Chinese name. He previously denied his name as “代抗“(CK) on 03/21/2023.
　　In the WeChat calls, CK also requested an in-person meeting with me after his return to Seattle on 05/07/2023. I refused plainly and told him I did not want to see him anymore. I clearly expressed my desire to stay away from him, especially after he threatened me in various ways.
　　Faced with compelling evidence, after about 20 more hours, CK finally admitted he had deceived me about his marital status “from beginning to end”. CK also apologized to me for what he did to me while blaming me at the same time.
　　After apologizing on WeChat, CK told me that I “could bring any demand” to him for compensation.
　　I insisted that CK make WeChat calls to me to apologize. CK refused to call and threatened me again – “let’s end up destroying each other like this.”
　　Then CK also told me that his plan was “to continuously apologize and listen to my demands.”
　　At the late night of April 24, 2023, I sent a WeChat message to CK and made my demand: CKneeds to apologize to me by call; provide a written apology and explain why and where he lied to me for so many years; and provide financial compensation for the harm and loss I suffered due to his years-long lies. Next day I drop the request of apology, only left financial compensation.
　　Below are true and correct copies of WeChat communication records showing the calls and messages CK and I had on WeChat on April 24, 2023, and CK’s written statements.

　　Below are CK’s original words:
　　CK’s Threaten in His Wife’s Name in Call
　　Chinese “我老婆可能会揪着你不放。我不知道她会干什么。” English: “My wife may come after you. I don’t know what she will do to you.”
　　CK’s Blames & Death Threatens in Call
　　CK yelled at me : Chinese”你就是要毁了我!” English:” You just want to ruin me!”
　　CK threatened me: Chinese: “你这样会导致我和你鱼死网破！”English: ”Your actions（post our story) will force me to bring both us down/ruin each other!”
　　Chinese:”（你写爱情故事为了抒发心中痛苦的“出发点不重要，我只考虑造成的结果。你已经造成了这样的结果（我和你的事情被曝光了）” English: “The starting point doesn't matter when you write your love story to release the pain in your heart. I only consider the outcome you have caused. And you have caused such an outcome, where our relationship has been exposed."”
　　Chinese: “需要我以死谢罪吗？”English: “Do you need me to apologize with death?”
　　Chinese: “华人圈很小。所有人都知道了，我朋友同事都知道了” English: “There are very few Chinese in Seattle, the group is small. All knew this. All my friends and colleagues knew this.”
　　Chinese: “我感到五雷轰顶” English: “I feel thunderstruck(as this was revealed).”
　　“You caused this outcome." "You created this situation."
　　Chinese: “那我也去写，我就写你没写出来的，想怎么写就怎么写。...用你那5封邮件” English: “Then I will also write/post online, I'll write what you didn’t write, in any way I like......I’ll post the 5 emails you sent to me.” (The email contains sexual words, he used to say he liked it, he said the more I say, the more he wants to fuck me.); and encourage me to say in bed.
　　Chinese: “我会报警告那些网友。我不怪你。我相信你。”English: “I will sue those individuals who searched/revealed me online. I don’t blame you. I trust you.”

　　From the beginning of his call, I repeatedly asked:”Are you married? When did you get married? Why did you deceive me???”
　　His response with lies and manipulation:
　　“married/ has kid is my privacy. I don’t tell any friend about this. You can ask around if you don’t believe.” “can’t I have some privacy?”
　　"Why do you ask when I got married? What are you trying to do?"
　　"Can’t you have a happy conversation with me?" "If we can't have a happy conversation, let's not chat."(when I asked him when he married, and when he called me to blame me)
　　“I deceived you because I don’t want to upset you, and I didn’t want to tell.”
　　“I am serious with you/when I invited you to stay with me.”
　　“If my private intention was to just sleep with you, why did I refuse you sometimes(while continuing sleeping with me)... I could come to office and see you every day happily. I didn’t because (I like/love you)(not casual).”
　　“I didn't mention it (married in 04/2023) earlier because humans do not have the ability to predict the future.”” Tomorrow, I could even die.”
　　“I married this time (in 04/2023)” “I married in 04/2022” “I married in 05/2022”
　　“We had contact, not together(with his wife)”
　　“We are not always together, depending on how you define together (with his wife).”
　　“What do you mean together?” “I was with someone (his wife) sometimes, on and off”
　　“I am not always with someone.” “Did you always think I am single so you always wanted to see me?”
　　“I apologize I didn’t clearly tell you which month to which month I was not with someone(his wife)(from 2016-2020).”
　　“You can buy house with anyone, no need to marry.”
　　“We(KD and I) had possibility before, but later she(his wife) got pregnant, we have kid now, so I told you not possible.”
　　“I planned to apologize to you 3 months later.” “I should not blame you.”
　　“I caused your situation/”so called emotion”.” “I am the one to blame. I caused this result.”
　　I didn’t handle your emotions well….”
　　“Can we talk face to face after I return to Seattle?”
　　“I am thinking how to make you feel better.”
　　“Give me some time, I will think about solution, how to make up for your hurting.” (I gave him time, he set all his social media private, changed name and picture. Then, there is no solution for me.)
　　“I don’t read your post (of love story). I have no time to report your post.”
　　“All of my information have been revealed, my Himalaya, Xiaohongshu, company info, which company, which employee...everything. They found my podcast and me, not because of your post, but because other people took screenshots of your post and made new post and got high click - by yanyanyanxianxianxian...”
　　“I was ruined. I can’t see my friend or go back to company. My family is ruined... Chinese population in Seattle is very small... All of my colleagues read this. People started searching and internet violence on me. I will call police for those people’s internet violence, not against you...they caused my work problem...over 10 friends/colleagues have seen...many people abused me... “
　　“I believe your intention was not to reveal me but just write your love story.”
　　“you hide your posts first, tomorrow I will tell you when I got married.”
　　“they said I got married at least in 2017, they don’t know me, they may recognized wrong person, which is not me.”
　　“I have no possibility to stay in Seattle any more.”
　　“at least after you hide your posts first, we can discuss how to handle this issue.”
　　“everyone told everything about me.”
　　“you can blame/criticize me”
　　“I apologize for calling you so many times”
　　“the influence of “I was ruined” is less than the influence/pain I caused to you”
　　“hide your posts first before I tell you what I lied...then there is possibility to discuss”
　　“many people see post from yanyanyanxianxianxian”
　　“another post from xiyatudengtuixiuzhuanjia”
　　“I feel you should feel (my heart)”
　　“I don’t know how to face you so I didn’t tell you I got married.”
　　“I was with her (his wife) again before we broke up”
　　“I was not just seeing you for sex”
　　“when I said you and I have possibilities, because I was not sure with her(his wife)”
　　“I haven’t seen you as enemy yet. I know you don’t see me as enemy yet because you are still talking to me.”

　　Exhibit 19: Online Defamation towards Me, 100000+ reviews, My Pain & Fear
　　Since from April 24, 2023, I started to find online posts attacking me and insulting me with slanders and defamation. My school’s name was revealed in those posts.
　　Unknown internet users suggested those slanders and defamation from CK, CK’s wife, and their friends.
　　I had no way to identify the individuals who made those posts attacking me, but I was humiliated and scared by the lies and defamation in those posts. I defended myself by replying to some of those posts with evidence.
　　Ellen - as disclosed as CK’s wife’s friend, has been spreading a few offensive and disgusting slut-shame rumors in Amazon Beatuty Group, which had 500 members.
　　“She called his wife and said that she is willing to serve CK with his wife together”.
　　It's uncertain how many times these rumors have already been spread. That has caused me lots of pain and fear.

　　“Someone in the group said those attacking comments on you seem like from his wife’s friends.”
　　“His wife’s friend said you called his wife and said that you are willing to serve CK with his wife together”.
　　I felt disgusting and deeply hurt by this.

　　“rumors was forwarded by Ellen, maybe it’s his wife herself”
　　I felt disgusting and deeply hurt by those defamation.

　　“She is worse than a whore.” “Whore gets paid. She is free.”
　　“She is less than a sex buddy.”
　　“She deserves no sympathy.”
　　“She is such a bitch. If man is not bad, woman will not love.”
　　“This man doesn’t respect her at all.”
　　“This guy is a scumbag/asshole. This girls is also not a good thing.”
　　......

　　Other slanders on me.

　　Exhibit 20: CK’s Manipulation & Revenge, My Pain & Fear
　　Actually I have forgiven CK on 04/24/2023. I just needed the truth, apology and solution from him. However, he threatened me, used me again, told me more lies, and then abandoned me without hesitation.
　　Even though, I still decided to move on.
　　However, moving on is not so easy, especially in my case. I needed closure and explanation. On 05/10/2023, after not contacting CK at all for about two weeks, when I felt that huge pain again, I sent him a polite message on WeChat asking him to take responsibility for his deceptive behaviors. However, I received no response but soon found two of my Little Red Book accounts reported simultaneously at around 1AM, despite the fact that I had no post at all at that time. Why was he so eager to report my account at 1AM.? What was his hidden agenda? A few days later, I realized that once again he had used his knowledge of me, and manipulated my trust, trapped me to contact him.
　　During the period from late April and mid-May, I contacted CK multiple times to seek for closure and solution from him. CK has kept silent; he has never given me any notice of unwanted contact. If CK wished so, he could have simply blocked me or delete me on WeChat, the most frequently used communication channel between us in the past seven years. If that occurs, all my contact would not be able to go through. CK did not do that. All he did was keeping silent, prompting me to contact him again and again.
　　After I received the temporary protection order on 05/18/2023, I have realized that this was a designed tactic of CK to obtain the protection order against me to revenge me and harm my future. CK reported me to police on May 1, 2023 with lies, and Police confirmed that there is no threat. He actually started collecting “evidence” planning to revenge me at least from 04/26/2023.
　　CK’s statements to police and in petition for protection order are not true. I never engaged in any behavior to harass or defame CK, I never had any intention to harass or defame CK. As a woman who was deceived, manipulated, hurt deeply for seven years by the man I loved deeply, all my lawful and legitimate purpose of contacting him was just to seek for closure and solution as he promised before.
　　Despite my forgiveness & seek for closure, CK manipulated, set me up starting from April, defamed me for harassment & defamation, forced me to endure severe emotional & financial suffering. Due to the heavy burden of attorney’s fee, I could not even afford to pay tuition fee, I could not even afford the medical treatment due to the the physical pain and emotional distress caused by CK’s sexual violence and emotional abuse.

　　This is a true copy of the first message I sent to CK on 05/10/2023, showing that I have been suffering severe physical and emotional pain due to CK’s behaviors.

　　Below two screenshots are true copies showing that my two accounts of Little Red Book were both reported on 05/10/2023, after I sent CK one message on WeChat. This is part of CK’s tactic to set me up, to trap me to contact him, so he can revenge me.

　　Exhibit 21: CK has been Stalking Me with Secret Account Since 04/24/ 2023
　　CK has been monitoring/stalking me on Little Red Book, Himalaya since 04/24/2023, with secret account.
　　He visited me 118 times in several days.
　　After I received the temporary protection order, some individuals with IP from China came to follow me, and ask “if this is CK?” without any context, or encourage me to contact him or expose him. I suspect their purpose.

　　Exhibit 22: My Recent Diagnose from Doctor: Severe Depression & Anxiety & PTSD
　　Since late April, I have been living under severe pain, severe fear, severe depression, severe anxiety and severe PTSD due to CK’s insult, deception, threats and revenge.
　　Below are true and correct copies of my diagnose from doctor and therapist recently

　　From the very first time that I met CK in 2016 through all the way through April 2023, on multiple occasions, I asked CKabout his marital status, and was consistently assured that he was single or unmarried. This turns out to be a lie, and CK already admitted it multiple times on April 24, 2023.
　　Should I know that all CK was looking for from me was just an affair with the benefit of sex, I would never interact with him or entertain any of his requests to meet, let alone having romantic or intimate activities with him. What I wanted was serious relationship and marriage.
　　Should I know that CK was married, I would never interact with him or entertain any of his requests to meet, let alone having romantic or intimate activities with him.