《Eternal Love许你一世温柔中英对照版》KaylieLiu

61、Chapter 60: The Past E

　　Even when searching for a job, applying for the same position at different companies with different interviewers leads to different requirements.

　　就连找工作，找同样的职位，不同公司面对不同的面试官都是不同的要求。

　　Some people admire you and feel an instant connection. Both sides feel positive during the conversation, and you can sense that they value you. The interviewer decides that you are the talent they are looking for, suitable for the position they are hiring.

　　有的人欣赏你，一见如故，一聊双方都有好感，你觉得对方重视你，面试官决定你就是他要找的人才，适合他所招聘的岗位。

　　On the other hand, some companies may not really need to fill the position but are merely testing the waters to see if they can find a perfect candidate. In such cases, the demands can be high because they do not really need to hire someone. When facing these kinds of companies and interviewers, the result can be disappointing and disheartening.

　　而有的人或许是因为根本就不缺这个职位，只是虚挂职位看能不能淘到真金白银，所以要求极高，因为他们不缺人，并没有实际意义上的需求，遇到这样的公司，这样的面试官往往让人失望，败兴而归。

　　Therefore, the same person with the same abilities, looking for the same job simultaneously, can have vastly different outcomes depending on the interviewer.

　　所以同样的人，同样的能力，在同一时间段去找同样职位的工作，因为面对的面试官不同其结果也是天差地别的。

　　The differences between people play a decisive role in society.

　　人与人的差异化在社会上起着决定作用。

　　These experiences and reflections on job hunting can be extended to the definition of love.

　　这些找工作的经验和总结，其实是可以延伸到爱情的定义。

　　Love is mutual admiration and liking between two people. Marriage must be built on the foundation of love.

　　爱情就是两人相互欣赏、相互喜欢，婚姻一定是建立在爱情的基础上的。

　　Love must come before marriage. Inverting this order can easily lead to bitter consequences.

　　必定是先有爱情，后有婚姻。本末倒置，很容易自食苦果。

　　"I won't talk much, but I must tell you the path you've chosen is very tough, and the result may not be as you hoped."

　　“别的我不想多说，我只是想告诉你你选的这条路是很艰难的，而且结果并不一定如你所愿。”

　　"In this world, every choice comes with risks. Nothing is guaranteed to be a hundred percent successful or a hundred percent failure. We must reconcile with our circumstances while also refusing to settle. Life is a journey we shape, and as long as our health remains sound, there will always be a way forward. The only concern is pushing ourselves excessively and falling sick when we are incapable."

　　“在这个世界上任何选择都有风险，没有一件事情能有百分百的成功也没有百分百的失败，人既要认命，又要不认命。日子是自己过出来的，只要自己身体能保证健康，就一定有路走。当自己能力欠缺之时就是怕把身体搞垮了。”

　　"But since you've made up your mind, I hope you will make it to the end no matter the result. Quitting halfway is not the thing my daughter will do."

　　“但是既然你决定了，那么不管结果如何，我也希望你能坚持走到底。半途而废不是我赵露的女儿。”

　　"Remember, whatever others offer you reflects your inherent worth and the value you hold for them. "

　　“记住别人给你的东西是因为你本来就值得，你对别人有价值。别人对你有所求才会给予。”

　　"People give when they expect something in return. Life is an exchange, often adorned with various euphemisms. You can choose not to overthink and burden yourself or progress one step at a time. Regardless, with each step, ensure it propels you forward. Don't worry too much about what others say. Those who opine without experiencing the struggle can't truly comprehend it. Why should their views matter?"

　　“人生在世都是利益交换。然后生成了各种美化词。一个人可以不想太多给自己增加烦恼，也可以走一步算一步，但是每一步你都要好好走。要保证自己脚下的每一步都比上一步强，也不要太在乎别人怎么说你。那些打秋千的站着说话不腰疼，理那么多干什么？”